Collective care – We are social creatures, our personal well-being depends on others. Lack of action, lack of care and lack of respect mean neglect and neglect is a form of abuse. Silence can be painful, so can be a missed opportunity to lean in and help the other. We need to move our centre of relation from our ego to the collective. We need to ask for help and receive it, unconditionally. Our place amongst others should be offered, not re-claimed.